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      <title>Academy of the Pacific Rim, What Earnest Learning Looks Like</title>
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      <published>2010-01-14T18:22:18Z</published>
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            <name>Heather Miller</name>
            <email>hmilller04@aol.com</email>
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        <p>Last fall, with my 14 year old son in tow, I toured some of New England’s most prestigious private schools searching for the best educational environment (that would accept him). We looked at Andover, Choate, and Phillips Academy; every weekend driving to another fabled campus. Little did I know that I was overlooking one of the most impressive schools in the area - that some of the most imaginative teaching and progressive curriculum initiatives can be found at a charter school in Hyde Park, Boston. </p> <p>Last fall, with my 14 year old son in tow, I toured some of New England’s most prestigious private schools searching for the best educational environment (that would accept him). We looked at Andover, Choate, and Phillips Academy; every weekend driving to another fabled campus. Little did I know that I was overlooking one of the most impressive schools in the area - that some of the most imaginative teaching and progressive curriculum initiatives can be found at a charter school in Hyde Park, Boston. </p>

<p>The <a href="http://www.pacrim.org" title="Academy of the Pacific Rim">Academy of the Pacific Rim</a> (APR) is a middle and high school set in a former Westinghouse factory a short drive from Readville Station. The school’s philosophy is based on the ancient Eastern values of excellence, purpose and respect. Offered a chance to get to know the school’s staff and students, I saw those values play out repeatedly, and regretted all the hours and gas I had wasted on those long weekend drives. </p>

<p>During my time visiting APR I frequently heard the word <em>gambatte</em>, a Japanese saying that is used on occasions where Americans are likely to say “good luck.” But rather than “hope you do well,” saying <em>gambatte </em>to someone means “persist, never give up, put in your full effort.” Rising to the occasion is hardly a new goal in education, but at APR I found a rare determination to instill this approach in the students’ moral fiber. Though half of the student population qualifies for free lunch - demographics that typically go hand in hand with low MCAS scores – nearly the entire 10th grade at APR achieved proficiency in both Math and English exams, scoring far above their counterparts in other Boston public schools. College admissions results are similarly impressive with 90% of graduates going on to 4-year college. </p>

<p>At APR’s morning assembly, middle schoolers in khaki pants and maroon tops sat quietly on the floor as a teacher made announcements. I’ve visited many urban schools and am accustomed to endless disruptive behavior and discipline, so I was a bit stunned by this placid group. Not only were they sitting quietly, they were paying attention. APR’s Executive Director Spencer Blasdale explained to me later that this was no accident. All students learn to SLANT: Sit up, Listen, Ask/Answer, Nod, Track.&nbsp; </p>

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That same day I saw a presentation of the “Gambatte Award.” “What is a hero?” a teacher asked, then provided the ancient Greeks’ definition - a person with unusual powers. The 7th grade defines a hero as “someone who does the right thing even when nobody is paying attention,” she told the students, “someone who isn’t afraid to be themselves, and take risks.” She presented the award to a boy who she said fit the description, and who “is proud of his unique family heritage.” As the students applauded enthusiastically, I was struck by the award’s thoughtfulness. I realized that the careful, close observation obvious in the description of the week’s winner must have had a huge impact on that child; that such generous attention must contribute to the confidence that allows the kids to pay attention, contribute and stay motivated. I began to see the cycle. </p>

<p>Kelechi and Adrian, two 8th graders charged with showing me around, agreed that APR is unlike any school they’ve ever attended. It’s certainly more demanding. They get 1 and a half to 2 hours of homework each night, and Saturday detention from 9 to 12 if they don’t finish. But Kelechi and Adrian take the school’s high standards as a compliment. “My family is Nigerian,” Kelechi explained, “They’re very strict on education. APR was the first school [where] I ever got less than a 90. I was in shock because when I got here, my first grade was an 80. I had to really work to get my grades up. APR has taught me a lesson that I’ll never forget. Always work hard, never take it for granted that you’re going to do well just because you’re smart.”</p>

<p>Adrian has a special relationship with his teachers. “In my old school, teachers cared. Like they cared to see me in class and they might say hello to me in the halls. But here they greet you at the door and shake your hand… The whole Chinese religion is about respect. Respecting elders. We’re here to respect our teachers. They’re here to help us so we have to help them and be nice to them as though they were our family.” Kelechi nodded, “Teachers are like our second parents.” </p>

<p>A serious college preparatory school, APR starts in 6th grade when students make their first college visit. “We visited Amherst” Kelechi and Adrian remembered, and then argued over where next year’s college trip would be. MIT? Williams? And if college isn’t enticing enough, there’s the prospect of studying from 2 weeks to a semester at APR’s sister school in China. “You have to be really good at Chinese” said Kelechi who, like all APR students, began learning Mandarin in 6th grade. </p>

<p>I was about to ask Adrian and Kelechi to come home with me so they could “rub off” on my son, when they brought me into an 8th grade English class where a young teacher was reading Sandra Cisneros’ <em>The House in Mango Street</em>. The class discussion revolved around the book’s reflection on class issues and the American Dream. I wish I’d been asked such provocative questions in graduate school. In another room, a 7th grade class was role-playing in order to examine cultural identities and misinterpretations. When students offered examples as disparate as the Crusades, <em>Borat</em>, and a student’s birthday party that mixed quiet friends with rowdy friends, the teacher took each seriously, and wove them into the discussion. </p>

<p>In classroom after classroom, I witnessed an active approach to learning. Students were encouraged to flex their bodies in a lesson as well as their minds. I saw a Chinese class playing charades (in Mandarin of course) and a History class full of 17 year olds actually learning the Charleston.</p>

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<p>If you are not wondering how to get your child into APR by this point, you must have a broken monitor. Unlike prep schools where you need to know the founder, admissions to APR is via lottery. Students can enter in 5th, 6th or 7th grade, but no new students are accepted into higher grades. Preference is given to students living within Boston city limits.</p>

<p>In the end what impressed me most about APR was the earnestness of the students and the teachers. That earnestness left no room for the cynicism which so often creeps into and cripples urban public schools. That earnestness meant that APR could “persist, never give up, and put in a full effort” creating a learning environment worthy of a towering Gambatte Award. </p>

<p>To find out more about APR: visit: <a href="http://www.pacrim.org/">http://www.pacrim.org/</a>.
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    <entry>
      <title>New Year, New You, New Pole Dancing Routine</title>
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      <published>2010-01-06T15:29:55Z</published>
      <updated>2010-01-06T15:30:56Z</updated>
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            <name>Hadley Pollet</name>
            <email>hadley@hadleypollet.com</email>
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        <p>When I jokingly asked my boyfriend if he “would like a pole” for Christmas, I never thought he’d light up SO much. “A pole?” he gasped. “Did you say a pole?&nbsp; Say it again – a pole? Say it again…say it again…say it again!!”&nbsp;  </p>

<p>Immediately I became drenched in fear. HELP - I’m going to have to do this. Clearly he would LOVE this and what’s better than giving your man what he loves on Christmas? For a man who’s impossible to buy for, this was the best present I could give. I guess if you ask any guy if he wants you to transform into a dancing sex kitten for his Christmas he’s gonna say YES.&nbsp; </p> <p>When I jokingly asked my boyfriend if he “would like a pole” for Christmas, I never thought he’d light up SO much. “A pole?” he gasped. “Did you say a pole?&nbsp; Say it again – a pole? Say it again…say it again…say it again!!”&nbsp;  </p>

<p>Immediately I became drenched in fear. HELP - I’m going to have to do this. Clearly he would LOVE this and what could be better than giving my man what he loves on Christmas? For a man who’s impossible to buy for, this was the best present I could give. </p>

<p>I guess if you ask any guy if he wants you to transform into a dancing sex kitten for his Christmas he’s gonna say YES. So I, Fairfield County, prep school, of-the-manor-born (or so some people think) girl, set out to find myself some pole dancing lessons, sexy outfits and ultimately - a pole.<br />
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Having committed to doing something TOTALLY outside my comfort zone, I began to realize there were quite a few women who were very comfortable with this. Madonna opened the Grammy’s on a pole. Carmen Electra has one, Oprah, Cindy Crawford, Teri Hatcher – several enlightened women are swinging around poles in their bedrooms these days. I’d entered into something that is beginning to and will most likely penetrate all socio-economic classes, if given the chance. </p>

<p>I was way too embarrassed to take group lessons, so I signed up for bi-weekly private lessons with <a href="http://www.gypsyrosedancing.com/aboutus/aboutwendy.htm" title="Wendy Reardon">Wendy Reardon</a>, former dancer (and papal scholar!) at <a href="http://www.gypsyrosedancing.com/index.htm" title="Gypsy Rose Dancing">Gypsy Rose Dancing</a>. Learning how to sexify my dancing was the goal. I had no idea how quickly I’d meet it, surpass it and actually love every minute of it.</p>

<p>Whoa! Ta Wanda! Was it fun and liberating! I learned pole twirls, butt swirls, wall crawls, chair dancing, teasing, you name it. I dressed up in Pussy Cat Doll outfits every week and danced to my favorite sexy songs while practicing for my honey pie. Was he going to love this! (And, he did.)&nbsp; </p>

<p>Girls and grand dames of Boston – get on it! Forget resolutions, just try something totally outrageous! You’ll feel amazing, believe me. Spin outside your comfort zone. Twirl and bathe in your pure femininity. </p>

<p>This dance will be as much for you as it is for him. Part of the exercise is setting aside all judgment and our New England puritanical outlook on anything having to do with any kind of “adult entertainment.” Empower yourself by using your femininity and sensuality to surprise your guy with a gift he’ll remember forever.&nbsp; </p>

<p>And for icing, you’ll be ashamed of your muffin top, house butt, spare tire no more. </p>

<p>Dance down to <a href="http://www,gypsoyrosedancing.com" title="Gypsy Rose Pole Dancing">Gypsy Rose Pole Dancing</a>, 364 Boylston Street, 3rd floor, Boston, MA,&nbsp; 617-824-0359.&nbsp; What’s more Reardon also has a user manual on pole dancing:&nbsp; <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Complete-Idiots-Exotic-Dancing-Illustrated/dp/1592575609/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1231181586&amp;sr=8-1" title="The Complete Idiot’s Guide, Exotic and Pole Dancing">The Complete Idiot’s Guide, Exotic and Pole Dancing</a> is available on Amazon. </p>

<p><strong>Tips for your first pole dancing lesson:&nbsp; </strong><br />
1. Dressing sexy is the name of the game. Sweats and sneakers deflate your sexy sass in a second.&nbsp;  <br />
2. Wear round toed shoes. Pointy toes may catch on the pole and cause you to trip.<br />
3. Try short skirts with pleats which let you move easily. Also they flare up for a little peek; try a school girl look – MEOW! <br />
4. Layer panties and cute tops and bras for the strip tease. It leaves more time for the climax.<a href="http://www.ellemacphersonintimates.com" title=" Elle MacPherson"> Elle MacPherson</a> makes some amazing push up bras and boy shorts, which are all around better than a thong (can we say Too Much Information?) Also check out the Misstropolis article on gorgeous lingerie, &#8220;<a href="http://www.misstropolis.com/index.php/style/article/what-lies-beneath/" title="What Lies Beneath">What Lies Beneath</a>.&#8220;<br />
4. Forget your (self perceived) flaws - embody the fantastical fantasy you are creating and any and all matronly mush will melt away.&nbsp;  &nbsp; <br />
5. If you really are at a loss for what to pull out of that closet of yours, Gypsy Rose has an immense closet of cat suits and costumes.</p>
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      <title>New Year&#8217;s 2010: Celebrate in Style</title>
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      <published>2009-12-29T14:33:29Z</published>
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        <p>Someone famous once said, “Many Americans no longer celebrate the arrival of the New Year – they celebrate the survival of the old year.”</p>

<p>If ever that was true, there is a real good possibility that it is the case, for a lot of people, anyway, this year. It’s been a tough one, economically speaking, but many are telling us that the recession is behind us, that better times are ahead.</p>

<p>Okay, then, let’s celebrate. And let’s start with Night One, New Year’s Eve, 2010.</p> <p>Someone famous once said, “Many Americans no longer celebrate the arrival of the New Year – they celebrate the survival of the old year.”&nbsp; For many of us, this seems more true than ever this year. It’s been a tough one, economically speaking, but many believe recession is behind us, that better times are ahead.</p>

<p>Are they right? Wrong? For this week at least, let&#8217;s not worry about it. Let’s celebrate a new start. We&#8217;ll start with Night One, New Year’s Eve, 2010.</p>

<p>While some like the glitz, the sparkle, the horn-blowers and the tune of Auld Lang Syne – aka a big, splashy party – others prefer a quieter, more reflective New Year’s celebration. Whatever your preference, there are unique options either right in the city, or within a few hours drive. Planning ahead is necessary though, as things book up fast. No one wants to be left out!</p>

<p>For those looking for a scene, several of Boston’s premiere hotels are offering special deals, some including accommodations, others, just a party.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.ameshotel.com/default.aspx#/explore/?id=woodward" title="Woodward">Woodward</a>, at the newly-opened <a href="http://www.ameshotel.com/default.aspx#/home/" title="Ames Hotel">Ames Hotel</a> (part of the Morgans Hotel Group) on Court Street, has a three-course, prix fixed dinner, a champagne toast at midnight (bet they’re passing a nice glass of the bubbly) and a DJ. The party goes until 3:00 am. I was at the opening a few weeks ago; the Ames is chic and gorgeous, part Paris, part Palm Beach, a very glam boutique hotel.&nbsp; Attire is sure to be over-the-top, in a good way: lots of designer labels, lots of gems, lots of good coifs. For tickets ($100 for the prix fixed), call 617 979 8100.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.libertyhotel.com" title="The Liberty Hotel">The Liberty Hotel</a> on Charles Street is throwing an “On Top of the Liberty,” multi-level bash (if you know the place, you understand the multi-level component – if you don’t, picture a cavernous space, formerly a jail, with several restaurants, bars and a night club, open from the lower level on up). Two DJs (Michael Savant and Dan Riti), live music (the Sinatra Band), Vegas-style entertainment, cocktails and heavy hors d’oeuvres will rival the venue’s Halloween party for sure – and that’s saying something. Tickets are $75 per person and may be purchased <a href="http://www.libertyhotel.com" title="online">online</a>. Overnight packages are available, wise to consider if you’re coming in from out-of-town.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/liberty.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="472" height="305" /></p>

<p>Flappers dust off your dancing shoes and comb your bob&#8230;.ultra-cool <a href="http://www.alibiboston.com/" title="Alibi">Alibi</a> at The Liberty will host the second annual <a href="http://www.alibiboston.com/greatgatsby/" title="Great Gatsby Party">Great Gatsby Party</a>. 1920s-style dress is not a must, but really, that’s part of the fun. Hors d’oeuvres, special performers and a fortune teller - $75 per person, <a href="https://alibi-bar-and-lounge.ticketleap.com/member/list_events.aspx?event_company_id=2922FA38-BF0E-44EB-83B6-69871A38EBA&amp;" title="visit the club’s website to purchase tickets online">visit the club’s website to purchase tickets online</a>.</p>

<p>Over the river – no woods – in Cambridge, <a href="http://charleshotel1.reachlocal.net/" title="The Charles Hotel">The Charles Hotel</a> is offering several deals. Their “Toast the New Year” package includes overnight accommodations, a bottle of sparkling wine, breakfast (either in bed - too romantic - or at the restaurant, Henrietta’s Table) and, in honor of all those New Year’s resolutions, a day of fitness at the Wellbridge Athletic Club.</p>

<p>Billed as a “musical bash,” the hotel’s <a href="http://www.regattabarjazz.com/" title="Regattabar">Regattabar</a> will set the stage for performer David Maxwell, along with special guest Michelle Wilson. Four different packages are available; reservations can be made <a href="http://www.getshowtix.com/regattabar/moreinfo.cgi?id=1915" title="online">online</a> or by calling 800 882 1818. Prices range from $99 - $679.</p>

<p>Ring in 2010 with a waterfront view at the <a href="http://www.bhh.com/" title="Boston Harbor Hotel">Boston Harbor Hotel</a> on Rowes Wharf. Their overnight, romance package includes champagne and chocolate-dipped strawberries in the room on arrival, breakfast in bed and use of health club and pool. A more elaborate package, the New Year’s Eve First Night Celebration, includes accommodations, dinner, use of the health club, breakfast at the hotel restaurant and two First Night admission buttons for those interested in experiencing the music and festivities. Don’t miss the ice sculptures at Copley Plaza. For more details, call 617 439 7000. Prices start at $465.</p>

<p>Looking for a taste of intrigue rather than a night of intimacy? <a href="http://www.feltclubboston.com/" title="The Felt Club">The Felt Club</a> is hosting a Carnival Masquerade – billed as a New Years Eve Fantasy Festival, Rio de Janeiro-style.&nbsp; Complimentary “Carnivale” masks, Brazilian appetizers, DJ, live music (including live Bongo players), a “Midnight Fantasy Parade, and “surprise performances” all night long are on taps at one of the city’s premiere hot spots.&nbsp; Colorful attire is encouraged and advance tickets ($50 per person) may be ordered by calling 617 261 4200.</p>

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<p>For jazz heads, options abound. Kick up your heels at the South End’s <a href="http://www.storkclubboston.com/" title="Stork Club">Stork Club</a> for some Latin jazz or <a href="http://www.rylesjazz.com/" title="Ryles">Ryles</a> in Cambridge, where Joe Bargar and the Soul Providers crank up the soul, pop and funk starting at 8:00.</p>

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<p>Prefer the Tango or the Salsa? The club is also hosting the Supershag Dance Party starting at 9:30. Purchase tickets to either party <a href="http://www.ryles.com" title="online">online</a> or at the door.</p>

<p>The Dead is anything but at <a href="http://www.johnnyds.com/index.html" title="Johnny D’s">Johnny D’s</a> in Somerville, where <a href="http://www.johnnyds.com/artist/playindead.html" title="Playin’ Dead">Playin’ Dead</a> pays tribute to the best of Jerry Garcia. Reservations can be secured by calling 617 776 2004. </p>

<p>Hate the thought of venturing out on First Night? Consider a festive New Year’s Eve with the family. Last year, my good friends took their two daughters to the <a href="http://www.fourseasons.com/boston/dining/the_bristol_lounge.html" title="Bristol Lounge">Bristol Lounge</a> at the Four Seasons for a cozy dinner, after a frosty, snowy skate at Frog Pond just across the Common. This year, the Bristol is offering a four-course dinner (best enjoyed from a window table or the armchairs in front of the fireplace – request in advance!), along with champagne and a DJ. Call 617 338 4400 for information about the menu or for reservations. Frog Pond, by the way, is open until 8:00pm on New Year’s Eve. </p>

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<p>Then there is the notion of escape. Think New Year’s Eve on the wild side, the real, wild side.</p>

<p>Heads up, winter enthusiasts: The <a href="http://www.innbythesea.com" title="Inn by the Sea">Inn by the Sea</a>, located in Crescent Beach, Maine, is offering a two night getaway, complete with two pairs of snowshoes from L.L. Bean, two passes to the store’s “snowshoeing activity” in nearby Freeport, complimentary spiked hot chocolate in the lounge and two nights’ accommodations. You are sure to hear the snowflakes falling on the pines – it’s that quiet&#8230;.perfect for reflecting on the past year, or making plans for the next. Visit <a href="http://www.innbythesea.com" title="www.innbythesea.com">www.innbythesea.com</a> for more information.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/innbythesea.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="338" /></p>

<p>Prefer to head south? <a href="http://www.chathambarsinn.com/" title="The Chatham Bars Inn">The Chatham Bars Inn</a> voted one of the top resorts of the year by Conde Nast Traveler, is less than two hours from Boston and is nestled in one of the most picturesque towns on the Cape. Included in the two night package is dinner and dancing to live jazz. Reservations can be made by calling 1 800 527 4884. While in Chatham, you can enjoy the festivities of a small town First Night. In its 19th year, this wholesome, family-oriented event offers song, dance, music, storytelling, hayrides, ice carving and dramatic performances. </p>

<p>New Years Eve – some love it, some <em>don&#8217;t</em>. If your choice is to stay home, curled up on the sofa, watching the ball drop in Times Square, so be it. But if venturing out and ringing in a new decade is on your agenda, there are certainly plenty of options to choose from&#8230;..cheers!</p>


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    <entry>
      <title>12 Days Holiday Gift Guide: Post 390</title>
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      <published>2009-12-21T15:40:31Z</published>
      <updated>2009-12-22T17:45:33Z</updated>
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            <name>John Ross</name>
            <email>notes@patchnyc.com</email>
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        <p>Post 390 is hotter than hot. The Kennth Himmel restaurant and bar, occupying two open, dramatic floors of the former Back Bay Post Office Annex is on everyone&#8217;s lips and everyone&#8217;s go-back-again-soon list. John Ross takes inspiration from the enormous windows, fantastic views, sexy bars and inspired menu for a last minute gift guide that will keep your spirits bright.</p> <p>Post 390 makes me think of power lunches, warm your soul glasses of wine and impeccably dressed women. Thus, this list of last minute gift suggestions. No worries, there&#8217;s plenty of time!</p>

<p>1. This <a href="http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/product.asp?order_num=-1&amp;MC=1&amp;SKU=16705349&amp;RN=508" title="Black Tie Carafe">Black Tie Carafe</a> ($495) is one of the best looking wine carafes out there, and believe me there are oodles.&nbsp; I like the rather proper elegance of this piece guaranteed to elevate any variety of wine (even boxed).&nbsp; Available at<a href="http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/product.asp?order_num=-1&amp;MC=1&amp;SKU=16705349&amp;RN=508" title=" Bed Bath &amp; Beyond online"> Bed Bath &amp; Beyond online</a>.</p>

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<p>2. <a href="http://www.conranusa.com/ProductDetails.aspx?pid=4722&amp;cid=TechnoBoy&amp;language=en-US" title="Classic Boxing Gloves">Classic Boxing Gloves</a> ($110) The perfect table-side accessory just in case that power lunch gets out of hand.&nbsp; Available at <a href="http://www.conranusa.com/ProductDetails.aspx?pid=4722&amp;cid=TechnoBoy&amp;language=en-US" title="Conranusa.com">Conranusa.com</a>.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/Post.boxing_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="305" height="261" /></p>

<p>3. <a href="http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=721025&amp;kwid=1&amp;sem=false&amp;sdReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2Fsearch%3Fclient%3Dsafari%26rls%3Den%26q%3Dbanana%2Brepublic%2Bcurtain%2Bcall%2Bnecklace%26ie%3DUTF-8%26oe%3DUTF-8  " title="Curtain Call Fringed Necklace">Curtain Call Fringed Necklace</a> (normally $70, now on sale) for making a sparkling entrance onto a stage (real or imagined). Also helps with impressively entering restaurants, bars, shops, day care when picking up the little ones or grocery stores.&nbsp; I&#8217;m all for adding more drama when it comes to fashion and I like that this piece has a sprinkling of glamour combined with a touch of tough. From Banana Republic.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/Post.necklace_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="260" height="345" /></p>

<p><em>Next Up - Oya.</em></p>

<p><a href="http://www.post390restaurant.com/" title="Post 390">Post 390</a><br />
406 Stuart Street at Clarendon (formerly 390 Stuart Street before the rezoning turned them to 406)<br />
Boston, MA 02116<br />
617.399.0015
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    <entry>
      <title>The 12 Days Holiday Gift Guide: Scampo</title>
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      <published>2009-11-30T03:08:06Z</published>
      <updated>2009-12-02T15:44:08Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>John Ross</name>
            <email>notes@patchnyc.com</email>
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        <p>I always enjoy the lofty spectacle that awaits after stepping off the short escalator ride to the central atrium of the Liberty hotel: the soaring 90 foot high ceiling, the super&#8212;sized ocular windows and the tiered chandeliers comprised of wrought iron bands that mimic the multiple levels of catwalk bordering the expansive room.&nbsp; The setting is almost enough to make me want to stay and linger at the bar, drink in hand, with the stylish crowd.&nbsp; But drinks and stylish Bostonions only carry so much weight when innovative Italian deliciousness beckons so I take in the view and turn right back around and step on that short escalator back down to Lidia Shire&#8217;s Scampo nestled on the first floor. </p> <p>I always enjoy the lofty spectacle that awaits after stepping off the short escalator ride to the central atrium of the <a href="http://www.libertyhotel.com/" title="Liberty Hotel">Liberty Hotel</a>: the soaring 90 foot ceiling, the super&#8212;sized ocular windows and the tiered chandeliers comprised of wrought iron bands that mimic the multiple levels of catwalk bordering the expansive room.&nbsp; </p>

<p>The setting is almost enough to make me want to stay and linger at the bar, drink in hand, with the stylish crowd. But drinks and stylish Bostonions only carry so much weight when innovative Italian deliciousness beckons so close. I take in the view and turn right back around and step on that short escalator back down to Lidia Shire&#8217;s <a href="http://www.scampoboston.com/" title="Scampo">Scampo</a> nestled on the first floor.&nbsp; </p>

<p>Shopping for the holidays never knew such a rejuvenating reward. Head straight to Scampo after shopping in the Back Bay or on Charles Street. The gifts inspired by Scampo reveal the confidence, the sexiness and the supreme quality of one of Boston&#8217;s very best. </p>

<p>1. <a href="http://usa.hermes.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?jspStoreDir=ConsumerDirectStorefrontAssetStore&amp;catalogId=10052&amp;categoryId=102793&amp;parentCategoryId=102744&amp;productId=25269&amp;topCategoryId=127526&amp;nbItem=&amp;currentColorId=&amp;langId=-1&amp;docname=ShoppingArea%2FCatalogSection%2FProductSubsection%2FWatchesSection%2FProductWatchesNewDisplay.jsp&amp;leftCategoryId=102789&amp;storeId=10202&amp;ddkey=CategoryDisplay" title="Hermes Kelly Watch">Hermes Kelly Watch</a> ($1700).&nbsp; This isn&#8217;t from an Italian fashion house but I couldn&#8217;t resist including this iconic Hermes classic with the wonderful dangling padlock watchface.&nbsp; Lock-down never looked so luxurious.&nbsp; </p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/Scampo.hermes-watch_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="427" /></p>

<p>2. <a href="http://www.cooperhewittshop.org/?path=item&amp;topid=2&amp;itemid=176" title="Bullet Proof Rose Brooch">Bullet Proof Rose Brooch</a> ($170). Designed by Tobias Wong and crafted from Kevlar, a bullet proof material, that looks surprisingly delicate for being so tough. Two attributes worth aspiring to, no? Best to wear over ones heart&#8230;.just in case.&nbsp; </p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/scampobrooch.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="314" height="435" /></p>

<p>3. <a href="http://www.gucci.com/us/us-english/us/cruise-10/womens-shoes/#0-1057245-236897A3N001000" title="Gucci Venus Platform">Gucci Venus Platform</a> ($990).&nbsp; A classic Italian fashion house with a, well, interesting past.&nbsp; I like the chic re-interpretation of black stripes which reminded me of black and white stripes like a certain type of uniform. </p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/scampogucci.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="343" /></p>
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    <entry>
      <title>Jonathan Adler&#8217;s Radical Happy Chic</title>
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      <published>2009-11-16T17:07:41Z</published>
      <updated>2009-11-23T21:49:42Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>Robin Hauck</name>
            <email>robin@misstropolis.com</email>
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        <p>Stepping into his new boutique on Newbury Street in downtown Boston, you might not immediately think of Jonathan Adler as a rebel. Outrageous perhaps, bold, wild, optimistic. But there&#8217;s a glee about the store that seems almost forbidden. It&#8217;s like stepping into a speakeasy during prohibition - is it legal to have this much fun, you wonder. Should I really feel this happy? You might get drunk on all the color. It hits you like the fragrance from a lilac bush in bloom, flowing from shelves of pottery, piles of pillows, books of wallpaper. And that&#8217;s when the rebel idea hits. With all this optimism, all this joi de vivre, it seems Adler couldn&#8217;t possibly be buying into the doomsday sentiments of the times, the determinations of the daily news. He couldn&#8217;t possibly believe only prescription drugs can lead in these tough times to happiness, be practicing the restraint characteristic of even the fiercest fashionistas. No, the longer one stays in Adlers store and experiences his unapologetic miliu, the more obvious it becomes that Adler is as much a rebel as Marilyn Manson or Courtney Love or Sid Vicious or any dark angel of anarchy. </p> <p>Stepping into his new boutique on Newbury Street in downtown Boston, you might not immediately think of <a href="http://www.jonathanadler.com" title="Jonathan Adler">Jonathan Adler</a> as a mad rebel. Outrageous perhaps. Bold, wild, optimistic. But a rebel? On first glance the store appears full of gleaming nods to preppy kitsch and pretty domesticities. What&#8217;s radical about bone white and bright colored pottery? What&#8217;s badass about needlepoint pillows?</p>

<p>One only need wander into neighboring stores to see that some sort of a rebellion is in full swing at 129 Newbury Street. While somber colors dominate other windows and desperate discounts beckon passersby, a bright sunny tomorrow seems to be for sale at Jonathan Adler. Adler denies the restraint and humbleness following the economic collapse and buries it with an irrepressible high contrast gloss, signature to his furniture, pottery, rugs and pillows.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/JA.store1_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="320" /></p>

<p>You might get drunk on all the color. It hits you like the fragrance from a lilac bush in bloom, flowing from shelves of pottery, piles of pillows, books of wallpaper. With all this optimism, all this joi de vivre, it&#8217;s harder to buy into the doomsday sentiments of the times, the bleak determinations of the daily news. No, the longer one nestles into the cocoon of happy chic merchandise, the more obvious it becomes that Adler is rebelling, just in his own upbeat, accessible way.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/JA.store2_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="322" /></p>

<p>&#8220;Happy chic&#8221; Adler&#8217;s lifestyle ideology as described in his book &#8220;My Prescription for Anti-Depressive Living&#8221; and experienced in his stores, subverts the status quo as boldly as any punk rock or nihilistic philosophy. There is more optimism in a small corner of his shop than in all of the <em>Boston Globe</em> this past season. What could possibly be more radical than confronting the gloomy outlook dominating the current culture than a full room of happy? Take that Brian Williams, take that Lou Dobbs, take that Ariana Huffington and Rupert Murdoch! Adler is choosing a different outlook on life and damned if it isn&#8217;t a festive one.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/JA.store3_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="320" /></p>

<p>This is a man for whom brights are a starting point: &#8220;used throughout a room, orange can become surprisingly neutral, and yet it can be bright and mood-enhancing&#8221; and who forged a recent collaboration with Barbie. His dog is named Liberace. In 1968 rock critic Richard Goldstein wrote &#8220;exhibitionism is the quiet side of violence&#8230; it aims to provoke.&#8220; and this is what is so contagious about Adler&#8217;s milieu&#8230; It provokes by asking why not be completely unabashedly happy? </p>

<p>Adler has a knack for stealing ideas from grandma&#8217;s Palm Beach house. His wallpaper calls to mind country clubs of the 1960&#8217;s and his pillows and rugs twist classics in his signature bold way. He loves contrast, never afraid to use stark white to highlight design elements, the way he does with a huge anchor on a navy blue rug. </p>

<p>&#8220;If anyone is trying to be modern, it&#8217;s a cliche&#8221; Vivienne Westwood told the <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/1994/11/15/style/looking-back-all-the-bustle-over-retro.html" title="New York Times">New York Times</a> in 1994.&nbsp; At his best Adler avoids cliche - the needlepoint backgammon board and pillows sporting a Q and a T arranged on a silver couch are anything but expected. However with his pottery becoming more and more available and his books in Barnes and Nobles, the threat of cliche becomes more real.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/JA.backgammon_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="284" /></p>

<p>Adler was in town last week for the opening party at the store. He is witty, charming, irreverent and stylishly in keeping with his products. Simon Doonan was not with him, but the president of his company and head of stores were, as were Boston&#8217;s most stylish trendsetters.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/JA.bigshots_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="347" /><br />
<img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/JA.EleanorJack_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="335" /></p>

<p>Jonathan Adler and Simon Doonan have made a living merchandising personal style and the &#8220;pointlessness of a life lived without a dab of daring panache.&#8220; If their is any possibility of consumerism inciting revolution, it just might start on Newbury Street in Jonathan Adler&#8217;s store. </p>

<p>Exclusive to Misstropolis readers, Jonathan Adler is offering 10% off all purchases during the weekend before Thanksgiving, Nov. 21/22. Just mention Misstropolis and join the rebellion at a discount. </p>

<p>Jonathan Adler<br />
129 Newbury Street, Boston<br />
<a href="http://www.jonathanadler.com">http://www.jonathanadler.com</a></p>
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    <entry>
      <title>Containers to Clinics Launch Event at the ICA</title>
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      <published>2009-10-30T18:07:13Z</published>
      <updated>2009-11-16T19:35:14Z</updated>
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            <name>Misstropolis Special</name>
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        <p>Containers 2 Clinics (C2C) retrofits portable shipping containers into health clinics with high-quality equipment, medicines and medical staff. The clinics are transported to underserved areas of the developing world to administer primary healthcare to women and children. </p>

<p>The pilot program will send a container clinic to the Dominican Republic. But first, see the incredible design first at the Institute of Contemporary Art, Boston. Read on for more details.</p> <p>Celebrating the launch of their pilot health clinic in the Dominican Republic, <a href="http://www.containers2clinics.org/" title="Containers to Clinics">Containers to Clinics</a> is throwing a party at a very intriguing venue, Boston&#8217;s <a href="http://www.icaboston.org/" title="Institute of Contemporary Art">Institute of Contemporary Art</a>. The ICA has always been concerned with the relationship between design and functionality and how that relationship manifests in art and industry. </p>

<p><a href="http://containers2clinics.eventbrite.com/" title="Containers to Clinics Launch Event and Clinic Display">Containers to Clinics Launch Event and Clinic Display</a> taking place on Monday November 16 from 6:30 to 9:30pm will be a rare opportunity to see design, functionality and compassion working together in a single exhibit. </p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/C2C-ICA.drawing_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="296" /><em>A sketch of the pilot clinic which will be on display at the ICA.</em></p>

<p>Containers to Clinics was started because of some devastating statistics. Nine million children – 99% of whom live in the developing world - die from illnesses like malaria, diarrhea, measles and pneumonia every year; and more than 500,000 women die from complications of pregnancy and childbirth each year.&nbsp; All of those are preventable or treatable diseases through basic and inexpensive health care. </p>

<p>C2C retrofits portable shipping containers into health clinics with high-quality equipment, medicines, and medical staff. The clinics are transported to underserved areas of the developing world to administer primary healthcare to women and children. C2C’s clinics are designed with diagnostic, lighting, and climate-control technologies appropriate for low-resource settings and reflect local cultural traditions and health education needs. By repurposing shipping containers, C2C exports access to better health around the world and closes the gap between available treatments and the women and children who <br />
desperately need them. </p>

<p>Some clinic structures are brick-and-mortar facilities; others provide mobile services to isolated villages. The container model seeks to draw from the best practices of all existing clinic interventions. </p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/C2C-ICA-guys.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="360" /><em>Men work on the interior of the container which will soon be a full service clinic.</em></p>

<p>Once retrofitted for use as a health clinic, a shipping container is a transportable, durable, adaptive, and secure structure with high potential for replication and consistent care services. The interior of an industrial shipping container can be renovated to allow space for a small consultation room, a small laboratory, an office for staff, and storage and inventory space. Modified for ventilation, light, and utility connections, a container clinic provides a personalized, local-level venue for community members to seek treatment services or preventive health education. </p>

<p>The pilot clinic will be shipped to the Dominican Republic in early 2010 and is scheduled to arrive in country, pass customs, and be operational in the target community by March. </p>

<p>The C2C clinic is currently being fabricated in Rhode Island by a team of design-builders from <a href="http://stackmachine.wordpress.com/2009/09/09/containers-2-clinics/" title="Stack Design Build">Stack Design Build</a> a company which has used shipping containers for green projects in the past. The C2C clinic will be on display from Saturday, November 14th through Tuesday, November 17th and then will be moved down the street to <a href="http://www.buildboston.com/ " title="Build Boston">Build Boston</a> at the Seaport World Trade Center. </p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/C2C-Ica-outside.container_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="360" /><em>The outside of the container under construction in Rhode Island.</em></p>

<p>The facility is made from two 8’ x 20’ recycled shipping containers. The first of these will house two exam and consultation spaces in which women, infants, and children will receive preventative and primary health care services from local doctors in the Dominican Republic. The second will be comprised of the pharmacy and laboratory spaces. In short, you will see a fully functional health clinic built into two boxes of recycled corrugated metal and ready for shipment to rural communities around the world.</p>

<p><a href="http://www.icaboston.org/" title="The ICA Boston">The ICA Boston</a><br />
100 Northern Avenue<br />
Boston, MA<br />
<a href="http://www.icaboston.org">http://www.icaboston.org</a></p>

<p><a href="http://www.containers2clinics.org" title="Containers 2 Clinics <br />
">Containers 2 Clinics <br />
</a>P.O. Box 446<br />
Dover, MA 02030<br />
781.435.1080<br />
info@containers2clinics.org</p>
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    <entry>
      <title>Rolfing is Back</title>
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      <published>2009-09-12T00:48:45Z</published>
      <updated>2009-09-18T20:21:47Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>Susan Graage</name>
            <email>s.graage@comcast.net</email>
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        <p>Rolfing is back.&nbsp; Well known to yogis, pilates instructors and alternative health devotees, Rolfing, also known as structural integration, is returning and this time may be just what the doctor ordered. <a href="http://www.oprah.com/health/oz/oz_20070426_350_101.jhtml" title="Oprah’s Dr. Oz">Oprah’s Dr. Oz</a>&nbsp; recently featured Rolfing and bestowed it with Oprah’s Golden Seal of Approval, promoting what competitive athletes, actors and musicians have long known about this intense form of body work.&nbsp; Rolfing has helped performers such as the skater Elvis Stojko, actor LeVar Burton and pianist <a href="http://movies2.nytimes.com/gst/movies/movie/html?v_id=376622" title="Leon Fleisher ">Leon Fleisher </a> to alleviate chronic muscle pain, heal injuries and continue to do the things they love.&nbsp; The benefits often extend far beyond postural improvements with clients reporting that somatic realignment enhances the mind body connection,&nbsp; improves self esteem and produces a powerful sense of well being.</p> <p>Rolfing is back.&nbsp; Well known to yogis, pilates instructors and alternative health devotees, Rolfing, also known as structural integration, is returning and this time may be just what the doctor ordered. <a href="http://www.oprah.com/health/oz/oz_20070426_350_101.jhtml" title="Oprah’s Dr. Oz">Oprah’s Dr. Oz</a>&nbsp; recently featured Rolfing and bestowed it with Oprah’s Golden Seal of Approval, promoting what competitive athletes, actors and musicians have long known about this intense form of body work.&nbsp; Rolfing has helped performers such as the skater Elvis Stojko, actor LeVar Burton and pianist <a href="http://movies2.nytimes.com/gst/movies/movie.html?v_id=376622" title="Leon Fleisher ">Leon Fleisher </a> to alleviate chronic muscle pain, heal injuries and continue to do the things they love.&nbsp; The benefits often extend far beyond postural improvements, with clients reporting that somatic realignment enhances the mind-body connection,&nbsp; improves self esteem and produces a powerful sense of well-being.</p>

<p>Rolfing was developed by <a href="http://www.rolf.org/" title="Ida Rolf">Ida Rolf</a> , a true visionary.&nbsp; Rolf received a doctorate in biochemistry from Columbia in 1920, raised two boys, and became well versed in chiropractic medicine, osteopathy and tantric yoga.&nbsp; Keenly interested in the way postural imbalances affect the soft tissues in the body, she came to believe that 10 sessions of myofascial manipulation and movement re-education would optimize the effect of gravity on body structure. Fascia, the primary soft tissue with which Rolf was concerned, is a devilish web of cotton candy-like connective tissue, present everywhere between muscle and skin.&nbsp;  </p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/rolfing.p3.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="325" height="382" /></p>

<p>A certified Rolfer must be trained at the Rolf Institute, but Ida Rolf’s students have continued to develop her original ideas and offer their own Structural Integration education. One student, Tom Myers, has further codified the lines of strain and tension in the body, calling these meridians of the body “<a href="http://www.anatomytrains.com/" title="Anatomy Trains">Anatomy Trains</a>”.&nbsp; Anatomy Trains are not energetic acupuncture meridians, but rather fascial networks that function like longtitudes and latitudes of the body.&nbsp; </p>

<p>Meyers has trained one local genius of Structural Integration – Bob Vinson.&nbsp; People often come to Bob after exhausting traditional medical approaches to injuries.&nbsp; Lisa Schwartz is a case in point.&nbsp; She wanted to run a marathon in her hometown to celebrate her 40th birthday, and when she sought out a leading orthopedic surgeon who treats many professional athletes in Boston to address some chronic injuries, he told her “If it hurts, take some Advil and stop running.”&nbsp; A colleague referred her to Bob Vinson, whose response was, “Okay, we will do it.”&nbsp; Lisa completed her sessions the week before she ran and completed the Houston marathon.</p>

<p>The process involves 12 75-minute sessions (Meyers expanded the original 10).&nbsp; Vinson will assess your posture in the first session and determine a plan of action.&nbsp; The work is usually done in underwear or a bathing suit so that direct contact can be made with the fascia, but any embarassment quickly dissipates as you become acquainted with Bob and discover the elements of his life story.&nbsp; A truly gifted body worker, Vinson’s diverse life experiences span a stint as a seminarian at a monastic order, the Passionists, to serving as a helicopter pilot in the Vietnam war.&nbsp; Marathoner, avid biker and kayaker, husband and dad, Bob zeroes in on the troublesome movement patterns and muscle tension that prevents clients from moving freely and realizing their physical and mental potential. </p>

<p>Rolfing has a bit of a reputation as an Esalen-era intensely deep massage, but current Structural Integration practicioners use less force, asking for feedback from the client and never working to an intolerable level of pain. Once the fascia is freed in a given area, clients will be asked to move the newly unrestricted underlying muscles.&nbsp; The order of the  treatment lines is always the same, but each client&#8217;s program is individualized as well as cumulative.&nbsp; One session builds upon the next – like peeling an onion. The enhancement in kinesthetic awareness that this muscle retraining produces is profound and will change everything, from the way you reach into your purse for keys to trying to get into Peacock pose.&nbsp; The possibilities are limitless.</p>

<p>Bob can be reached at Partners in Healing in Arlington at 781 641-3911.&nbsp; To find a Rolfer or Structural Integration Practicioner in your area, search the <a href="http://www.rolf.org/" title="Rolf Institute">Rolf Institute</a> or <a href="http://www.anatomytrains.com/" title="Anatomy Trains">Anatomy Trains</a> websites.
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    <entry>
      <title>Fang Festish &#45; the Benefit of the Season that Sucks!</title>
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      <published>2009-08-17T17:06:05Z</published>
      <updated>2009-09-01T20:00:06Z</updated>
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        <p>Bloody Brilliant!&nbsp; Fang Fetish at District: A Red Hot Party in Honor of True Blood.</p> <p><strong>Bloody Brilliant!&nbsp; Fang Fetish at District: A Red Hot Party in Honor of <em>True Blood</em>.</strong></p>

<p>Please join Misstropolis, <a href="http://www.bpositiveproject.com/" title="b Positive Project">b Positive Project</a>,&nbsp; <a href="http://www.closetfetish.com/" title="Closet Fetish">Closet Fetish</a> and <a href="http://carlmichaelsalon.com/index.html" title="Carl Michael Salon">Carl Michael Salon</a> at <a href="http://www.districtboston.com/" title="District ">District </a>on Saturday August 29 for a party celebrating the goosebumps, the glory and the gore that is <a href="http://www.hbo.com/trueblood/season2/" title="HBO's TRUE BLOOD">HBO&#8217;s TRUE BLOOD</a>.</p>

<p><img src="http://www.misstropolis.com/images/uploads/fangfetish.480_.jpg" alt="&copy; Misstropolis.com" width="480" height="309" /></p>

<p>Proceeds from the party will benefit the <a href="https://www.givelife.org/index_flash.cfm?thisHB=08/17/2009%2009:52:52" title="American Red Cross">American Red Cross</a>. Please follow <a href="http://www.givelife2.org/donor/default.asp?thisHB=08/17/2009%2010:14:10" title="this link">this link</a> to learn more about donating precious blood for the millions that need it. </p>

<p>Door prizes for all include mini first aid kits filled with vampire teeth and bite mark stickers&#8230;. And in addition to their always delicious drinks, District will be serving signature V cocktails in vials&#8230;</p>

<p>Bloody awesome raffle prizes include:<br />
- Weekend night stay @ The Liberty<br />
- Closet Fetish closet Makeover<br />
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    <entry>
      <title>Seven Pleasures: Can We Flow to &#8220;Ordinary &#8220;Happiness?</title>
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      <published>2009-07-28T02:34:27Z</published>
      <updated>2009-08-13T04:10:28Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>Susan Graage</name>
            <email>s.graage@comcast.net</email>
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        <p>If you have finally settled into a more relaxed pace this summer and are ready to power down another notch, now is a good time to consider Willard Spiegelman’s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Seven-Pleasures-Essays-Ordinary-Happiness/dp/0374239304" title="Seven Pleasures: Essays on Ordinary Happiness">Seven Pleasures: Essays on Ordinary Happiness</a>. The too smug title doesn&#8217;t do the book justice; Spiegelman’s hybrid memoir about his own lifelong hobbies turns out to be a sublime meditation on seven gratis common pursuits open to everyone.</p> <p>If you have finally settled into a more relaxed pace this summer and are ready to power down another notch, now is a good time to consider Willard Spiegelman’s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Seven-Pleasures-Essays-Ordinary-Happiness/dp/0374239304" title="Seven Pleasures: Essays on Ordinary Happiness">Seven Pleasures: Essays on Ordinary Happiness</a>. The too-smug title doesn&#8217;t do the book justice, Spiegelman’s memoir about his own lifelong hobbies turns out to be a sublime meditation on seven common pursuits open to everyone.</p>

<p><em>Seven Pleasures</em> - his personal counterpoint to the seven deadly sins - proposes that we might attain a contented, yet quite ordinary state of being he defines as <em>sanguinity, </em>through the practice of several thoroughly regular hobbies. Writer Annie Dillard observed that “How we spend our days is how we spend our lives.” It might be wise to consider partaking in something legitimately enjoyable, and not simply as a means to an end. Lace up your sneakers and put your library card in your pocket and the pleasure is yours for the taking.</p>

<p>Spiegelman groups his &#8220;pleasures&#8221; into three categories: Walking, Swimming and Dancing (mind-body connection),&nbsp; Listening and Looking (aesthetic attentiveness), and Reading and Writing (literary engagement.) Although the essays work as separate pieces (several appeared solo before the book was published), parallels such as the strong rhythmic component of swimming, dancing, listening and walking and unexpected intersections, such as the sexual innuendo common to swimming and dancing, give them more resonance when read together. </p>

<p>Although reading and writing are but two of Spiegelman’s seven pleasures, I found them to be at the heart of  the book. Densely packed with literary references and an exhaustive bibliography, not only of writers on writing, but even of the hobbies writers engage in when not writing, <em>Seven Pleasures</em> is a Western canon intellectual’s dream. Need a quotation by Pope on dancing? Looking for a reference by a Romantic poet, say Byron, on swimming?&nbsp; Spiegelman&#8217;s got them. Passionate readers will delight in his belief in the curative powers of literature: “To today’s sufferers, melancholics and ordinary neurotics, can we safely say, Throw out your Prozac, pick up your Wordsworth? The advice would revolutionize the health industry.” <br />
 
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<p>Whether or not his readers pursue the exact same activities is of no significance to the author - Spiegelman does not prescribe, but rather shares and extols the virtues of what has worked for him. He is careful to declare distinction from the self-help genre. It&#8217;s not that kind of book, no miracles get promised.</p>

<p>The central themes of <em>Seven Pleasures</em> stem from the qualities that enhance Spiegelman’s practice of his hobbies. Focus, concentration and attentiveness reinforce enjoyment. Spiegelman refers to it as losing oneself in the activity, or finding Csikszentmihalyi’s <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology) " title="flow">flow</a>. He writes that repetitious movement in dancing or swimming may etch technique into muscle memory, but ultimately the real sense of vitality and mastery comes from full engagement, loss of self, flow, in that activity. </p>

<p>Spiegelman devotes a lot of time to considering the solitary and communal aspects of all of these hobbies. Being alone is vastly undervalued in our society, he writes, and solo participation is a requirement of many of his hobbies. Solitude can be overwhelming, both from a physical standpoint (might a bear pop out of the woods on this trail?) and from a mental standpoint as well. Our distracting thoughts make solitude scary in the modern world. Spiegelman examines some variations of solitude – the concept of being alone together in the shared silence of a Quaker meeting or the more ecstatic communal experience of a rock concert. Spend some time with yourself.</p>

<p>Finally the self-expressive qualities of writing and dancing can remind us to stay open to creative possibilities. Let the experience of looking and listening inspire aesthetic endeavors - planting a garden, practicing a new pose, writing a poem. <em>Seven Pleasures</em> never made me rushed to conquer a new hobby -&nbsp; rather to dust off and revisit some old ones.</p>

<p>Spiegelman did encourage me to revisit authors I thought I knew and partake in what he describes as the middle-aged pleasure of reading aloud (poetry in this case) a deux (with my husband). Although Spiegelman insists books cannot make us better people, I felt a certain sense of importance - helping to hold up Western Civilization - when I discovered that the book, Wallace Stevens’ <a href="http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/5952" title="Harmonium">Harmonium</a>, had last been checked out of the library 26 years ago. Hopefully it will not sit on the shelf for another 26 years.</p>
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    <entry>
      <title>The Twilight Question</title>
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      <published>2009-07-22T03:21:48Z</published>
      <updated>2009-07-22T14:51:50Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>Abigail Jones</name>
            <email>adjones1@mac.com</email>
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        <p>There’s this vampire book. Maybe you’ve heard of it? I bet your tween is reading it. A girl moves to a new town and falls for a boy. He’s dashing and sweet — and he wants to drink her blood.</p>

<p>The book, of course, is <em>Twilight</em>, the first in a growing series of young adult novels by Stephenie Meyer, a married mother of three turned bestselling author. Combining fantasy, science fiction and the tribulations of adolescence, Meyer’s books follow the young Bella Swan, her vampire love, Edward Cullen, and a circus ring of friends, family, werewolves and foes.
</p> <p>There’s this vampire book. Maybe you’ve heard of it - I bet your tween is reading it. A girl moves to a new town and falls for a boy. He’s dashing and sweet — and he wants to drink her blood.</p>

<p>The book, of course, is <a href="http://www.stepheniemeyer.com/twilight.html" title="Twilight">Twilight</a>, the first in a series of young adult novels by Stephenie Meyer, a married mother of three turned bestselling author. Combining fantasy, science fiction and the tribulations of adolescence, Meyer’s books follow the young Bella Swan, her vampire love, Edward Cullen, and a circus ring of friends, family, werewolves and foes.</p>

<p>Since 2005, the series has sold <em>53 million</em> copies worldwide. That’s a lot of books. And while many Twilight fans are teens (the film earned five <a href="http://www.mtv.com/movies/news/articles/1613067/20090601/story.jhtml" title="MTV Movie Awards">MTV Movie Awards</a>), many are adults. With their mix of the impossible, the romantic and the real, the <em>Twilight </em>books offer grownups plenty to relate to (and rave about,) often against their better judgment.</p>

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<p>“I despise sci-fi and before <a href="http://www.hbo.com/trueblood/season2/" title="True Blood">True Blood</a> felt the same way about vampires,” says Susan Teeple, 37, a stay-at-home mom in Amarillo, Texas. Teeple bought <em>Twilight </em>on a whim, then finished the entire series within a week. Farrar Mansfield, also from Amarillo, had a similar experience: “Embarrassing as it is, I&#8217;ll admit that I just read all four books in a matter of days.” When discussing her love of science fiction, Meade McCarthy, 27, of New York City, summed it up: “Sigh, I am a dork.”</p>

<p><em>Twilight </em>fan Flo Farrell, 43, is a fundraiser at a private school outside of Boston. Though her friends and colleagues know she helps to run a website, few realize that it is devoted to <em>Twilight </em>and the supernatural. <a href="http://www.moonlightvampiresociety.org/" title="Moonlight Vampire Society">Moonlight Vampire Society</a> is an online community where users from around the world, aged 13 to 55, discuss otherworldly shows, books, and related topics. Farrell posts updates and comments on user contributions, but the most rewarding aspect, she says, is forging virtual friendships with like-minded users.</p>

<p>“I often feel that there are some folks in my professional world who would look down on me for having these interests,” Farrell says. What happens when this article goes live? “I guess my secret will be out!”</p>

<p>These women — and they are mostly women; as McCarthy writes, “pretty much every girl in my office has read” the books — can’t get enough of <em>Twilight</em>. Why?</p>

<p>Everyone likes an escape story. Lynne Frappier, 30, a communications advisor in Ottawa, Ontario, describes it like this: “People like to believe there are other things out there — especially from the comfort of their homes — either through a television, movie screen or a novel.”&nbsp; Intense characters, page-turning love stories and fantasy worlds offer intoxicating distractions from daily life.</p>

<p>Of course, underneath <em>Twilight</em>&#8216;s supernatural elements lies a classic story about love, loss, and growing up. Many readers identify with Bella and Edward’s experiences. Teri Cross Davis, 34, from Silver Spring, Maryland, says the books “pleased that 14 year-old girl deep down inside me who used to wish Johnny Depp from <em>21 Jump Street</em> would come and rescue me from all the popular kids who didn’t realize I was special.”&nbsp; Or, as Sarah Farmer, 30, says, the book “reminded me why I am so glad that I’m not a teenager anymore.”</p>

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<p>Yet 28 year old Brooke May could do without the obsessive teenage angst. “Nothing ever happens!!!” she exclaims in an email. “All they do is talk talk talk talk talk.”&nbsp; Then again, if you&#8217;ve read any middle school IM threads lately, that’s teenage life. </p>

<p>Meyer’s ability to write about sexual desire without actually writing about sex has sparked attention, partly because of her Mormon background and partly because she appeals to teens growing up in a culture of both sex and containment. Pamela Teagarden, 43, of Dallas, reads the books with her niece. “It’s fun to have creative conversations with her about her life and hit on all of the teenage stuff in a better way.”</p>

<p>May, who grew up in the Mormon church, doesn’t buy it. “I&#8217;m surprised [Meyer] can sneak in that much church cultural jargon. Like it’s really important to this 18 year old vampire to get married to his girlfriend before they have sex so he can protect her ‘virtue’?!”</p>

<p>But again, 53 million copies is a lot of books and a lot of readers, not all of them without a measure of self-reproach.&nbsp; As May herself confesses, “The most frustrating thing about all of this, is that despite what…I think [of the series]…I’m still going to finish it!” </p>
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    <entry>
      <title>It&#8217;s So Easy Being Green</title>
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      <id>tag:misstropolis.com,2009:index.php/culture/3.621</id>
      <published>2009-06-10T03:08:16Z</published>
      <updated>2009-06-17T20:33:17Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>Janine Nickel</name>
            <email>scarytwins@yahoo.com</email>
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        <p>Summer is the perfect time to test out easy ways to be green. Outside more often, we experience first-hand the effects of solar energy, wind energy, and even water on our lives. Why not try to harness this energy in your daily routine? I’m not talking about solar panels and wind turbines. I’m talking about things you can incorporate into your home and routine with very little investment (if any) and very little effort. </p> <p>Summer is the perfect time to test out easy ways to be &#8220;green.&#8220; </p>

<p>Outside more often, we experience first-hand the effects of the sun, wind, and even water on our lives. Why not try to harness that energy in your daily routine? I’m not talking about solar panels and wind turbines; I’m talking about things you can incorporate into your lifestyle with very little investment (if any) and very little effort. </p>

<p><strong>Harness the power of the sun</strong><br />
The sun and its heat have been celebrated for centuries. Make like a cave-mama and instead of throwing pool towels in the dryer, hang them outside to dry in the hot sun. For that matter, take your drying rack outside and see how quickly clothing dries out in the fresh air. </p>

<p>Build a simple <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/TECH/04/09/solar.oven.global.warming/index.html" title="solar oven">solar oven</a> using a pizza box, aluminum foil, and plastic wrap and test out easy recipes like English-muffin pizzas, s’mores, and chocolate chip cookies. Solar ovens are known to get very hot and it’s entirely possible to cook an entire meal in one if you use a large enough box, with maximum sun exposure, and a tight seal with the plastic.</p>

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<p><strong>Try a Container Garden</strong><br />
Growing your own veggies and herbs means minimizing your carbon footprint and cutting back on what you spend at the store. Food sold in most grocery stores impacts the environment due to the fertilizer and equipment used on the farm, the energy used in packaging and refrigeration, and the fuel used for transportation.</p>

<p>Container gardens are perfect for small places and for people who don’t have a lot of time to build and maintain an in-ground garden. At home we’ve successfully grown everything from tomatoes, to peppers, lettuce, herbs and more in containers that stay close to the house, making them easy to maintain and protecting them from squirrel and deer.</p>

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<p><strong>Capture the rain</strong><br />
A great way to go green - and maintain your container garden - is by installing a rain barrel. Rain barrels have come a long way from the barrels that bad guys in westerns would fall into (usually butt or head first). A rain barrel connects to your downspout where it collects and even filters out some of the debris from the rainwater. Collecting and reusing this water keeps it from running off into the street, local streams, and creek beds where it can cause erosion and pollution. A rain barrel costs roughly $100-$300 and can be easily installed. Using water stored in a barrel will cut down on your water bill and can act as an emergency source of water if you lose power during summer storms.</p>

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<p><strong>Ditch the plastic bag</strong><br />
Even though it’s summer kids still need lunches for camp, picnics or beach days with Uncle Bob. Try a <a href="http://www.wastefreelunches.org/success.html" title="litterless lunch">litterless lunch</a> - a lunch packed without using one plastic baggy. </p>

<p>There are so many reusable options for packing lunch that it can be fun experimenting with different products. Try a washable eco-friendly sandwich wrap like the <a href="http://www.wrap-n-mat.com/" title="Wrap-N-Mat">Wrap-N-Mat</a> which not only keeps food protected, it acts as a place mat and protects food from a dirty picnic table. I like reusable plastic containers like the <a href="http://www.rubbermaid.com/rubbermaid/product/product.jhtml?prodId=HPProd100072" title="TakeAlongs">TakeAlongs</a> from Rubbermaid which are dishwasher safe and keep sandwiches from getting crushed. These containers come in all different sizes and I’ve learned to use them for everything from grapes to pretzels to salad dressing. </p>

<p><strong>Green your cleaning products</strong><br />
The chemicals in most cleaning agents are not earth-friendly and many feel they are not people-friendly either. Some major brands have listened and many have created special lines of eco-friendly, natural cleaning products for the laundry room, kitchen and bathroom. One of my favorites is the <a href="http://www.clorox.com/products/overview.php?prod_id=gw" title="Clorox GreenWorks">Clorox GreenWorks</a> line of plant and mineral based cleaners. They work well and actually smell pretty good too. Costco’s own Kirkland brand offers an environmentally friendly dishwashing detergent and laundry detergent that contain no phosphates, chlorine, dyes or perfumes, is not tested on animals, but DOES contain biodegradable cleaning agents which are much better for the environment. </p>

<p>You can also get a little bit Martha Stewart and <a href="http://www.spryliving.com/article/32797.html" title="make your own cleaners">make your own cleaners</a> using varying amounts of baking soda, vinegar, bleach (non-chlorine to be greener) and water.</p>

<p>Enjoy trying out these ideas and let us know in the Comments section below if you have some simple green solutions of your own!</p>
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    <entry>
      <title>Are You Ready for the Summer?!</title>
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      <id>tag:misstropolis.com,2009:index.php/culture/3.397</id>
      <published>2009-05-28T00:48:42Z</published>
      <updated>2009-05-28T00:47:43Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>Susan Graage</name>
            <email>s.graage@comcast.net</email>
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        <p>In our never ending quest to help moms negotiate the challenging 10 weeks known as summer vacation, Misstropolis profiles some interesting options for the most discriminating campers. Don’t despair if you didn’t make it off the camp waiting list or don’t yet have your plans finalized.&nbsp; Here are four great and unique options to round out any child’s summer.</p> <p>In our never ending quest to help moms negotiate the challenging 10 weeks known as summer vacation, Misstropolis profiles some interesting options for the most discriminating campers. Don’t despair if you didn’t make it off the camp waiting list or don’t yet have your plans finalized.&nbsp; Here are four great and unique options to round out any child’s summer:</p>

<p><strong>For the Outdoor Explorer</strong></p>

<p>Worcester’s <a href="http://www.ecotarium.org" title="Ecotarium">Ecotarium</a>, which calls itself a center for Environmental Exploration, is one of the hidden gems of central Mass. Part zoo and part science museum, the campus also includes a digital planetarium, nature trails, a treetop trek and a train ride. The Ecotarium’s Loring Summer camp offers three options for campers ages seven to 14: Amazing Animals, Cosmic Camp and Prehistoric Planet, as well as a leadership program for older campers.&nbsp; Activities take place both at the Ecotarium and at a 320 acre site in Rutland, with each camp offering unique experiences and facilities.&nbsp; </p>

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<p>Animal Adventure campers will work with trainers caring for rescued birds, reptiles, and mammals, as well as New England’s only polar bear. Cosmic Campers will explore the digital planetarium and have a sleepover at the museum. Budding archaeologists  at the Prehistoric Camp will get to experience arboreal life in the treetop canopy walkway. We at Misstropolis are Eco Tarium aficionados  - their <a href="http://www.ecotarium.org" title="website ">website </a>lists a great line-up of summer events, and we may not be able to resist singing their praises again when their Zula Patrol has opened.</p>

<p><strong>For the Rock Star</strong></p>

<p>For children who have mastered an instrument or harbor dreams of being the next American Idol, <a href="http://www.dayjams.com" title="Dayjams ">Dayjams </a>operates week-long rock camps nationwide for kids ages eight to 15. Dayjams is an offshoot of <a href="http://www.guitarworkshop.com/" title="National Guitar Workshop">National Guitar Workshop</a>, a much admired music camp for adults. </p>

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<p>At Dayjams, kids choose voice, guitar, bass, keyboard, drums or horns and are grouped according to experience into bands.&nbsp; Musicians lead them through the process of composing original music, promoting their band, performing and recording it and showcasing their talents in a final concert. <a href="http://mindwalkband.com/" title="Mindwalk Boulevard">Mindwalk Boulevard</a>, a VH1 finalist in the “Your Move with Yes” contest, formed in a Boston Dayjams camp. Boston area locations of Dayjams are in Newton and Medford – currently Medford has more availability for summer 2008. </p>

<p><strong>For the River God(ess)</strong></p>

<p>To explore the natural beauty in our own backyard, <a href="http://www.paddleboston.com/main.php" title="Charles River Kayak and Canoe">Charles River Kayak and Canoe</a> has a nice assortment of week-long camps for grades four through 12. </p>

<p>For grades four through six, half-day and full-day kayak and canoe camps will be offered at Lake Cohichuate in Natick. Older kids might be intrigued by the sea kayaking camps. If a child is not proficient in the skills for the advanced sea kayaking camp, a few private sessions might prepare him or her for this group and its  trips along the Massachusetts coastline. Swimming in open water - always wearing their flotation devices, of course - is always a favorite of the campers.</p>

<p><strong>For the Artisan</strong></p>

<p>Finally, if none of these camps strike the right chord with your teen we saved perhaps the most unique opportunity for last. <a href="http://www.diabloglassschool.com/" title="Boston’s Diablo Glass School">Boston’s Diablo Glass School</a> introduces teens to the art of glass blowing in several week-long camps over the summer.&nbsp; </p>

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<p>Founded in 2001, Diablo offers courses to artists in conjunction with Mass Art as well as classes for hobbyists in a variety of glass techniques. <a href="http://www.diabloglassschool.com/summercamps.htm" title="Summer camps">Summer camps</a> are for teens, ages 12 and up. Participants learn techniques such as fusing and slumping to create stained glass and many different objects, including paperweights, drinking glasses and beads.</p>
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    <entry>
      <title>Join the Authors of &#8220;Mothers Need Time Outs, Too&#8221; for a discussion about Teenagers</title>
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      <published>2009-05-05T18:06:24Z</published>
      <updated>2009-05-20T02:35:26Z</updated>
      <author>
            <name>Susan Callahan and Katrin Schumann</name>
            <email>Charcole@comcast.net</email>
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        <p>Join the authors of Mothers Need Time Out, Too at Sel de la Terre for fabulous French cuisine and a talk about teens! If you have kids between 9 – 19, come share your stories for their next book, Teens Need Time-Outs, Too. It’s about giving our tweens and teens the tools they need to thrive in the Brave New World. Enjoy a 10% discount on your lunch.</p> <p>Give us a break, already. A person can barely switch on the tv or open a newspaper without being assaulted by relentless doom and gloom. Between the swine flu, Pakistani militants, home foreclosures and the crumbling auto industry, we might as well crawl right back into bed and set our alarms for, I don’t know, 2010?</p>

<p>But here’s some good news: it’s not that hard to get a grip. After interviewing over 500 mothers for our book <a href="http://www.momstimeouts.com/" title="Mothers Need Time Outs, Too">Mothers Need Time Outs, Too</a> and from our on-going seminars for women, we’ve got the latest invaluable tips about how to thrive during these trying times. </p>

<p><em>Take care of yourself so you can take care of others. </em><br />
Your mental health needs to be a priority. Maybe you have more time on your hands than ever before, or maybe you’re working twice as hard so you can pay the bills. Either way, now’s the time to make a commitment to spending five minutes a day doing something simple for yourself. We met one mom who doesn’t have spare time for yoga anymore, so she does a headstand every morning before waking her kids. We met another who lingers in the bath instead of taking a shower.<br />
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Delegate… and appreciate.</em><br />
Eight-seven percent of the moms we spoke with admitted they had trouble with perfectionism and delegating, yet: “one of the most pernicious forms of self-generated stress stems from perfectionism,” explains researcher Dr. Jon Allen. Letting people help you makes them feel empowered and gives you a break. </p>

<p>According to a 2004 study, wives completed 32 hours of housework a week compared to their husband’s 17, even when working fulltime. Enough already! Spend an hour on Sunday morning with the music blaring and have your kids and husband do some heavy-duty cleaning. Inviting people over lifts our spirits, but can seem like a lot of work. Throw a pot luck and don’t stress about the menu. You’ll save money, time AND have fun.</p>

<p><em>Make cost-cutting fun.</em><br />
Who doesn’t love a new pair of shoes or a deep muscle massage? But indulgences just don&#8217;t feel as satisfying when money is tight. Don&#8217;t worry, you can trim the fat without feeling deprived. Try having breakfast for dinner once a week; your kids will be thrilled and you’ll save money. Pick your kids’ favorite vegetables and start a window box garden for each of them. They’ll enjoy watching it grow, and eating the results.<br />
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Reconnect with your husband.</em><br />
Our personal relationships are the first things to suffer when we’re stressed, yet women we met told us that feeling connected to their husbands during tough times made them feel more positive and in control. </p>

<p>Remember those babysitting co-ops back in the 70’s? Call five of your friends and suggest making a schedule so each couple gets a real night out. Shake it up with your husband, being intimate doesn’t have to be an afterthought. Doors have locks for a reason! According to a 2004 study, increasing frequency of sex from once a month to once a week improves happiness as much as getting a raise of $50,000 a year!</p>

<p><em>Less is more.</em><br />
In a recent survey we found that almost 2:1 moms found positives in the recession. 72% of respondents answered “all of the above” when offered the following reasons for their optimistic outlook: tightening belts educates kids about the value of money; re-adjusting schedules helps kids find more precious downtime; being less busy and distracted helps focus on the small pleasures of life. </p>

<p><em>When times are tough, look for hidden opportunities.</em><br />
No more expensive extracurricular activities for your kids? Find ways to engage their imaginations. One mom had her kids cut pictures from magazines and make vision boards about their dreams and hopes. Can&#8217;t afford getting thrills from shopping? Get them from giving. Clear those closets and find a charity that picks up from your front door. A 2005 study showed that five kind acts a week significantly boosted participant’s happiness.</p>

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<p><a href="http://www.momstimeouts.com/" title="MOTHERS NEED TIME-OUTS, TOO: It’s Good to be a Little Selfish - It Actually Makes You a Better Mother">MOTHERS NEED TIME-OUTS, TOO: It’s Good to be a Little Selfish - It Actually Makes You a Better Mother</a> (<a href="http://www.momstimeouts.com">http://www.momstimeouts.com</a>) challenges the notion that being selfish is always bad. Authors Callahan and Schumann have begun work on their next book, <em>Teens Need Time Outs, Too</em> and want to hear your stories! </p>

<p>Join the authors of <a href="http://www.momstimeouts.com/" title="Mothers Need Time Out, Too">Mothers Need Time Out, Too</a> at Sel de la Terre for fabulous French cuisine and a talk about teens! If you have kids between 9 – 19, come share your stories for their next book, Teens Need Time-Outs, Too. It’s about giving our tweens and teens the tools they need to thrive in the brave new world. Enjoy a 10% discount on your lunch.</p>

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<p><strong>May 19th, 12:00 – 1:30 pm<br />
Sel de la Terre<br />
The Natick Collection<br />
Natick, MA<br />
Tel: 508 650 1800<br />
rsvp to scott@seldelaterre.com&nbsp; </strong>
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      <title>Celebrate Cinco de Mayo at the Beehive</title>
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        <p>Cinco de Mayo is actually a commemoration of a victory by Mexican troops in La Batalla de Puebla more that fifty years after its actual independence, on May 5, 1862. While Cinco de Mayo has limited significance nationwide in Mexico, the date is observed in the United States and other locations around the world as a celebration of Mexican heritage and pride. That&#8217;s why Cinco de Mayo is such a party - viva freedom and liberty! Party on at the Beehive in Boston&#8217;s South End and get special treatment as a member of Misstropolis. Read on!</p>

 <p>Forget loco weather patterns, <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090429/ap_on_he_me/med_swine_flu" title="swine flu">swine flu</a> and that blueprint fast you&#8217;re contemplating. Cinco de Mayo is a call for mad celebration and in Boston, <a href="http://www.beehiveboston.com/" title="The Beehive">The Beehive</a> is the place to bee. </p>

<p>Unlike poor Mexico right now, the South End is face-mask free and fiesta ready&#8230; rather than risking it south of the border, head to the South End to celebrate Cinco de Mayo. Chef Rebecca Newell will be whipping up some Mexican specials to compliment her regular menu and the live performance by Los Aguas Aguas will make you wish you could stay till 4am. (That&#8217;s them in the title image). To learn more about the band, check out their <a href="http://www.myspace.com/aguasaguas" title="MySpace page">MySpace page</a>; and don&#8217;t worry if you can&#8217;t read Spanish, the pictures and music say it all. Ole!</p>

<p>The Beehive&#8217;s annual <a href="http://www.beehiveboston.com/events_at_the_beehive/event-5-5-09.html" title="Mi Casa Bee Casa">Mi Casa Bee Casa</a> event goes from 5:30pm to 2am and dinner is served until 1am. In addition to the menu specials and the tunes from Aguas Aguas, the Beehive has a slate of iconic Mexican cocktails the Classic Patron Margarita, Patron Red Sangria Mexicana and the Mariachi Style Patron Shot with a Sangrita Chaser all for only $10.50 - we&#8217;ll drink to that.</p>

<p>Because they know how <em>sweet </em>Misstropolis readers are, The Beehive is sugaring the deal - <em>Misstropolites get priority seating for the show</em>. No small candy considering how popular this night is. Tell your host and waiter that you are with Misstropolis and you will also get a free dessert (Mexican Chocolate Coconut Flan anyone?)&nbsp; with purchase of an entrée like the Mexican “Fall Off the Bone” Roast Pork, Warm Tortillas, Rice &amp; Beans or the Grilled Mahi Mahi Tacos, Slaw, Salsa, Mexican Corn on the Cob or others from the menu.</p>

<p>Reservations are recommended if you plan on dining so call 617.423.0069. Please mention Misstropolis to receive the VIP seating and free dessert.</p>

<p>Divertirse!!! </p>

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